Friday, January 23, 2009

Day 3 of 50

First of all, I can't thank you all enough for your prayers, love, support, and care you have shown to Dave and I and our little family. We have been amazed by everyone's thoughtfulness and generosity. Your hope, faith, and confidence help to buoy us up during this difficult time.
My parents have graciously welcomed us into their home, and I couldn't ask to be in a more comfortable place or be better cared for.

I am keeping "busy" by reading magazines, watching tv, sleeping, eating, and keeping in touch with family and friends. My next goal in this process is to make it to 24 weeks (March 11) when I can then be readmitted to the hospital and remain there as long as possible, until delivery. So I have approximately 50 days of home bedrest, hence the title of this post.

My situation is much more difficult emotionally than physically. Sure, I have some normal discomforts of pregnancy and struggle with the never-ending quest to "get comfortable," but my hips and back don't hurt so bad when I never have to stand on them! Needless to say, my mom makes me wonderfully delicious meals and is always asking what else sounds good or wondering what treat she can make for me. This experience would really be quite fun if there just wasn't so much to worry about.

I'm not going to delve into all my worries, because really I have no control over them. I try not to stress about the things which are out of my control, which is almost everything at this point. I know that our babies' lives are in the hands of the Lord and He has a plan for every child. I put my faith and trust in Him and know that everything will work out the way it is supposed to. My faith continues to grow as He continues to grant our family another day to spend together.

I want to enjoy every minute I have with my babies, whether they be inside or outside my body. I love feeling their little kicks and turns, and I can't wait for Dave to be able to feel them as well. We have been taking lots of pictures of my growing belly and embrace it for all it holds. I pray to be able to hold them when they are big and strong enough to survive this world, and although I look forward to that day I hope it doesn't come for a very long time.

Thank you again for all your prayers and love. It means more to us than words can tell.

Monday, January 19, 2009

my baby sister and her 3 babies


hello everybody, this is lori, holly's sister. I am writing this post for a few different reasons. number one, holly is away from a computer and can't write herself. 
number two, I feel that it is important for those who know and love holly and dave to be informed on what is going on with them and their 3 little babies. 
and number three, for everyone to remember them in their thoughts and prayers. 

at 16 and 1/2 weeks pregnant with triplets holly's water broke last saturday. holly was just as surprised as the rest of us, and was immediately filled with fear, sadness, and anxiety. she was with her mom and they rushed up to the University Hospital where they met dave, her dad, and a great medical staff who have taken excellent care of my little holly. 
after extensive ultrasounds they discovered that one of the little boys' sack had broken but the other boy and girls' sacks were still intact and they were doing good.  all three still have strong heartbeats. 
holly was admitted to the hospital and will possibly go home tomorrow where she will remain on complete bed rest until she is 24 weeks. after 24 weeks she will then go back to the hospital where she will be admitted and remain until she goes into labor and delivers her little kiddos.
our prayers are that no infection will come to her and that her babies will want to stay inside for as long as possible.  
I love holly and dave so much. they are both such strong people and I know that if anybody can get through something like this it would be them. I think their 3 little babies already know how amazing their parents are, and that is why they are in such a rush to meet them.